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    The Secrets to Staying in Love | 12 Sure Tips For a Lasting Relationship

    No one can teach you how to fall in love. There are no books or foolproof steps to it. There is, however, a more definite art to staying in love.  This is not professing to be the all encompassing, pseudo-magical solution to keeping your relationship intact and everlasting. This is merely cogent advice based on research and observations as to why relationship fail and couples find it difficult to stay in love in the first place. Some of these advice focuses on things to do, while some of them offers detailed hints as to what not to do. We can assure you that religiously sticking to them, while not a…

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    Does Love Guarantee Faithfulness in a Relationship?

    “I’m starting to believe there’s no such thing as faithfulness in a relationship, to tell you the truth. I mean, how could someone who claims to love you still cheat on you and hurt you so bad? Does that mean they never loved you? Or love means nothing anymore? I’d like to believe it doesn’t. But I don’t think I can.” Does Love Guarantee Faithfulness?  For the question itself — does love guarantee faithfulness in a relationship? sadly the answer is No. Love does not guarantee faithfulness n a relationship. What love guarantees is affection. High affection that promises joy and beauty and understanding and companionship and many other beautiful…

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    Why You Should Leave Your Partner Alone | And How

    “Leave my partner alone? What the hell does that even mean? What the actual hell has gotten into you, NLv? Why in the world should I leave my beautiful, loving, adorable partner alone?” The Why — to show them how much I love and care for them? to show them I trust and cherish them and want them to be as moderately self-sufficient and independent as possible? to focus on my own self and improve myself in the process so that we can have an even healthier relationship? Oh look, we got the why out of the way already. Bravo.  Now when we say leave your partner alone of course…

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    Do We Choose Love? or Love Chooses Us? | The Ultimate Answer to the Ultimate Mystery

    “I just want to know, when people say love will find you, do they mean even if I don’t do anything the right person will come by? I ask because all my life I’ve been told nothing good ever comes easy. You have to go get it.” The simplest answer to the question of whether we choose love or love chooses us can be found in no other place than a scene in Harry Potter. Harry had just gotten into Hogwarths, and after the initial hassle and stress, all students were finally gathered in the dining hall.  They had the large dinner tables in front of them and everyone dug…

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    There is Such a Thing as Love at First Sight | Our Defense

    Call us hopeless romantics, but here at NLv we do happen to have a strong belief in not only love, but that beautiful, enchanting phenomenon known as love at first sight — and we’re unapologetic for it. To help our non-believer friends believe and see the light, we had to put together this short post explaining our position. Hope you enjoy! Something Called Love, at First Sight The way we see it is pretty simple. You see, love, being such a beautiful, amazing, complicated emotion/state of being that it is,  has different levels and manifestations to it. There is, of course, the very popular classification of erotic emotions as lust,…

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    9 Healthy Ways to Get Rid of Jealousy in a Relationship

    Welcome to the wonderful world of jealousy. For the price of admission, you get a splitting headache, a nearly irresistible urge to commit murder, and an inferiority complex. The above are the words of J.R. Ward in his book, Dark Lover. Some might argue, though, that for the extremely jealous people, these are not so much the price paid for jealousy but rather an invariable pre-requisite before it. At any rate there are only a few things capable of wrecking your relationship more than jealousy. It may be a bit cute and attractive in small doses, but when things start to get out of hand — and most times they…

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    12 Steps Guaranteed To Re-Establish Trust in Your Relationship

    There a few things forever unchanging about trust in a relationship: 1. Its importance can never be overstated.  2. Building trust in a relationship takes time.  3. Building trust in a relationship goes both ways. 4. Trust in a relationship is one of the few things much easier to build than to rebuild. There’s practically a blueprint that can be followed to build trust in a relationship. Mending and rebuilding a broken trust, however, is not so straight an affair (no pun intended.) If building trust takes time, then re-establishing trust in a relationship takes a lifetime. The good news, though, is that it can be done. But before we…