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    If You Love Her, Let Her go | What The Hell Does That Even Mean

    “Oh darling if you love her let her go; you gotta let her go” It’s a saying as popular as any you’d find out there, immortalized into poems and lyrics and mantras: if you love her, let her go. If you love him, let him go. If they were truly yours to begin with, they’ll come back to you. But how true is this saying? Is it just something people say to console themselves of a loss? Is there any modicum of truth to it?  If like us you’ve ever found yourself grappling with the term and trying to figure out the answers, fret no more. We’re here to guide…

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    I Fell in Love With my Best Friend | You Shouldn’t

    On Falling in Love with Best Friends  ” — To douchebags!” he said, gesturing to Brad. “And to girls that break your heart,” he bowed his head to me. His eyes lost focus. “And to the absolute fucking horror of losing your best friend because you were stupid enough to fall in love with her.” Jamie McGuire | Beautiful Disaster  Story:  First time I ever laid eyes on K I was eight years old. We were both eight years old. His dad had just died and his mother was away over at god-knows-where and so he had come to live us. I remember mother telling us to be good. She…

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    The Secrets to Staying in Love | 12 Sure Tips For a Lasting Relationship

    No one can teach you how to fall in love. There are no books or foolproof steps to it. There is, however, a more definite art to staying in love.  This is not professing to be the all encompassing, pseudo-magical solution to keeping your relationship intact and everlasting. This is merely cogent advice based on research and observations as to why relationship fail and couples find it difficult to stay in love in the first place. Some of these advice focuses on things to do, while some of them offers detailed hints as to what not to do. We can assure you that religiously sticking to them, while not a…

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    Losing Yourself in a Relationship — And Finding You | What Does That Even Mean

    “I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” BLUE-EYED DEVIL | Lisa Kleypas Losing Yourself in a Relationship | What Does That Even Mean? Losing yourself in a relationship is one of those tricky experiences that can be seen in two completely different ways: as a really bad and dangeorus thing, or as something good, driven, and positive.  Seeing it as a bad thing,…

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    Does Love Guarantee Faithfulness in a Relationship?

    “I’m starting to believe there’s no such thing as faithfulness in a relationship, to tell you the truth. I mean, how could someone who claims to love you still cheat on you and hurt you so bad? Does that mean they never loved you? Or love means nothing anymore? I’d like to believe it doesn’t. But I don’t think I can.” Does Love Guarantee Faithfulness?  For the question itself — does love guarantee faithfulness in a relationship? sadly the answer is No. Love does not guarantee faithfulness n a relationship. What love guarantees is affection. High affection that promises joy and beauty and understanding and companionship and many other beautiful…

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    Do We Choose Love? or Love Chooses Us? | The Ultimate Answer to the Ultimate Mystery

    “I just want to know, when people say love will find you, do they mean even if I don’t do anything the right person will come by? I ask because all my life I’ve been told nothing good ever comes easy. You have to go get it.” The simplest answer to the question of whether we choose love or love chooses us can be found in no other place than a scene in Harry Potter. Harry had just gotten into Hogwarths, and after the initial hassle and stress, all students were finally gathered in the dining hall.  They had the large dinner tables in front of them and everyone dug…

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    There is Such a Thing as Love at First Sight | Our Defense

    Call us hopeless romantics, but here at NLv we do happen to have a strong belief in not only love, but that beautiful, enchanting phenomenon known as love at first sight — and we’re unapologetic for it. To help our non-believer friends believe and see the light, we had to put together this short post explaining our position. Hope you enjoy! Something Called Love, at First Sight The way we see it is pretty simple. You see, love, being such a beautiful, amazing, complicated emotion/state of being that it is,  has different levels and manifestations to it. There is, of course, the very popular classification of erotic emotions as lust,…